It is funny how people who had not been in your situation would try to "sweet talk" or talk for them when they were the culprits behind people being miserable. I had learned that when a person who had hurt you repeatedly (like over & over again) but have no remorse to how the way they had treated you...It is always time to move on and let miserable people be by themselves. It is when you try to extend the olive branch over again but in return people like to back stab you or do NOT respect you as an individual-that is when you really would want to make decisions in your life. As a person who had experienced this repeatedly over & over again by those who I thought was family but it is sad how those people appreciate you as a human being...when you give them the space they TRULY deserve.
Every person wanted to be accepted and love by those who are family. No family should be treating another family member like they are an ATM or destroy their property like it does not matter or to take another family member's spouse/or mate. When they reach that line of "No return" it is time to leave those so call family members ALONE. I had been disrespected over & over again by my own younger sister for example: the way she had disrespected my relationships by making inappropriate advances toward the person whom I had dated like smacking that guy on the butt or rubbing her foot against his foot including destroying my phone cord to my first phone ( which was my gift for graduating out of high school) or (the last straw) when she had attacked me with the knife. Restraining order or not, I knew it was time for me to stay far away from this girl as possible.
It was the same as my aunt; how people would not ask how she is doing if she need any help with the bills or having a car issue. Those "family members" would go to my aunt like she is an ATM. They did not even care about her feelings or what she had to go through on a regular basis but they would use her AND blame her for THEIR screw ups. It can be raining outside and they would still blame her for crazy stuff. So she had enough of their secrets, lies and the mistreatment; it was better to move to the city...far away from their nonsense. But it seems like no matter where ever she goes the lies tend to follow her everywhere all because of this culprit-My Grandfather.Anyways without those "toxic" people in the house. We are living a better life without them. So what ARE you doing to do when you are in a situation where people (whom you consider family) starts to disrespect you and mistreat you as a person?
To let you know: You deserve better-(YEAH, YOU). It is time to rise above the ashes and start living a better, happy and peaceful life with those "toxic people" causing so much distress in your life.You have feelings too! You deserve a different life and it is time to let go of those negative people out of your peaceful life that you have been yearning. Think about it and your life will change...for the better.
Anyways, until next time...
While you meditate on those thoughts, if you want to be encouraged and be inspired "A Long Journey to Home" by Samantha Crystal is available NOW nationwide. Warning: There are a couple of mistakes in the book but overall it is an inspirational book to read. There will be moments in the book where it will make you laugh, cry, and make you think. It is available on Amazon, Barns & Nobles, www.xlibris.com/bookstore and bookstores nationwide. You will love this book, it will make you want to take a stand against Abuse & domestic violence.
Every person wanted to be accepted and love by those who are family. No family should be treating another family member like they are an ATM or destroy their property like it does not matter or to take another family member's spouse/or mate. When they reach that line of "No return" it is time to leave those so call family members ALONE. I had been disrespected over & over again by my own younger sister for example: the way she had disrespected my relationships by making inappropriate advances toward the person whom I had dated like smacking that guy on the butt or rubbing her foot against his foot including destroying my phone cord to my first phone ( which was my gift for graduating out of high school) or (the last straw) when she had attacked me with the knife. Restraining order or not, I knew it was time for me to stay far away from this girl as possible.
It was the same as my aunt; how people would not ask how she is doing if she need any help with the bills or having a car issue. Those "family members" would go to my aunt like she is an ATM. They did not even care about her feelings or what she had to go through on a regular basis but they would use her AND blame her for THEIR screw ups. It can be raining outside and they would still blame her for crazy stuff. So she had enough of their secrets, lies and the mistreatment; it was better to move to the city...far away from their nonsense. But it seems like no matter where ever she goes the lies tend to follow her everywhere all because of this culprit-My Grandfather.Anyways without those "toxic" people in the house. We are living a better life without them. So what ARE you doing to do when you are in a situation where people (whom you consider family) starts to disrespect you and mistreat you as a person?
To let you know: You deserve better-(YEAH, YOU). It is time to rise above the ashes and start living a better, happy and peaceful life with those "toxic people" causing so much distress in your life.You have feelings too! You deserve a different life and it is time to let go of those negative people out of your peaceful life that you have been yearning. Think about it and your life will change...for the better.
Anyways, until next time...
While you meditate on those thoughts, if you want to be encouraged and be inspired "A Long Journey to Home" by Samantha Crystal is available NOW nationwide. Warning: There are a couple of mistakes in the book but overall it is an inspirational book to read. There will be moments in the book where it will make you laugh, cry, and make you think. It is available on Amazon, Barns & Nobles, www.xlibris.com/bookstore and bookstores nationwide. You will love this book, it will make you want to take a stand against Abuse & domestic violence.
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